The Self-Destruction of Women & How that Effects Western Civilization

(source) Of course, from the very start… not all women are participating in this destruction, but enough that they might actually succeed. Here is how… There is a protective and nurturing spirit found in all species that use nurturing as a survival technique. It has served well, or else that particular species would have gone...

Latest Marriage Data Suggests Dark Future For America If Things Don’t Change Fast

(source) Perhaps the most important document to come out of the U.S. Senate this year was released last month, and while a report on President Donald Trump’s tax returns, another COVID-19 relief package, or infrastructure legislation likely would have gotten major media attention, this important document flew under the radar. The report, titled “The Demise of the...

Where Are the Children?

(source) Suppose you asked a group of university students “What is the greatest problem facing the world today? Many might suggest climate change. Given our present battle with coronavirus, some might cite pandemics. Others would surely bring up overpopulation. Few, if any, would mention plummeting birth rates in developed countries. Nations as diverse as Poland,...

The Boy Crisis, The Dad Solution

"Dad deprived” children suffer in more than 70 different areas in comparison to children who are “dad-enriched” (source) Dr. Warren Farrell is co-author (with John Gray of Mars/Venus fame) of the “The Boy Crisis.” While Dr. Farrell identifies ten causes of the boy crisis, he found that by far the biggest cause is a lack...

An Open Letter to the Alienating Mother of my Children

(source) So here we find ourselves. You living in the former matrimonial home with our three children. And I have not seen our children seventeen and a half months. Between us, I am estimating that we must have spent in excess of £28,000 in legal fees. On my part, the legal fees were to enable...

How fathers influence their daughters’ romantic relationships

(source) More evidence of the value of active fathers. One of the reasons that father and adult daughter relationships should be supported and encouraged is to help young adult women make better decisions concerning sex and romantic relationships. As explained on this blog by Timothy Rarick: Sadly, many adolescent girls in our sexualized Western world today...

Don’t Ignore The Child’s Perspective On Gay Couples Commissioning Babies

(source) Every week or so, another glossy article is published about a gay couple (or single) who has created children with the help of the ever-growing fertility industry.  The latest: “Gay Men Increasingly Turn to Surrogates to Have Babies.” The article gives an emotional, sympathetic picture of two adult men who used technology to achieve what their joint...

Being A Little Boy’s Mama – The Real Life Version

(source) I am bringing this back for a third time, due to what I consider to be an assault on men in America today. We mamas of little boys have a tough job. You are exhorted to have lots of energy, be ready to put up with bloody noses and reptiles in the house, see movies...

Why My Wife And I Decided To Abort Our Unborn Gay Son

(source) My girlfriend and I recently found out she is pregnant. I told her I’d support her and the baby, and secretly started saving for an engagement ring. She said she thought I would have wanted her to get an abortion. I didn’t—at least at first. She was excited and started planning the nursery. It...

5 Crazy Things Doctors Used to Tell Pregnant Women

(source) I admit I am a bit of a history junkie, especially when it comes to intersection of medicine, culture and childbearing. It's amazing the things they used to tell women. We have come a long way in the last century in caring for women. 1. Women shouldn't gain weight in pregnancy, unless they are very thin....

The Importance of Motherhood

(source) We live in a no-brainer age in which the very concept of motherhood is now under attack. Thus we must come to the defence of mothers and motherhood. This seems odd, given how valued mothers have been throughout human history. Mothers provide invaluable benefits to all, and their work is priceless. As Ann Crittenden...

What America Has Done To its Young People is Appalling

(Source) Critics are perhaps too quick to judge America’s young people, citing declining SAT scores, obesity, drug overdoses, addiction to smart phones, bizarre alterations of personal appearance and high rates of (alleged) mental illness. It’s just too easy to be annoyed at how some of the cashiers at the local grocery store seem unable to...

Growing Up With Two Moms: The Untold Children’s View

(source) Between 1973 and 1990, when my beloved mother passed away, she and her female romantic partner raised me. They had separate houses but spent nearly all their weekends together, with me, in a trailer tucked discreetly in an RV park 50 minutes away from the town where we lived. As the youngest of my...

3 Reasons Not to Make Your Kids Share Their Toys

(source) I don’t make my kids share their toys. I arrived at this decision after careful consideration. Unfortunately, that decision isn’t an easy one to discuss with other parents, mostly because it appears that my stance endorses selfishness. Nothing could be further from the truth. Like many other parents, I think it’s very important to teach...

Is miscegenation bad for your kids?

(source) Mixed-race couples mysteriously now dominate so many TV commercials. MSM good news: Edinburgh University’s Dr Peter Joshi and his team, analysed health and genetic information in 100 studies conducted worldwide, including details on more than 350,000 people, living in both urban and rural areas. They did find that “genetic diversity” (their term for “mixed-race”) is associated with higher...

How Dads Affect Their Daughters into Adulthood

(source) Conversations about the importance of fathers usually revolve around sons: how boys benefit from having a positive male role model, a consistent disciplinarian, and a high-energy roughhousing partner on their way to pursuing career and family success in adulthood. But as recent research shows, fathers also affect the lives of their young adult daughters...

How To Keep Your Teenager From Becoming A Radical Leftist Nutball

(source) A few months back, I experienced what a friend of mine and many libertarians and conservative parents say they have experienced: My teenagers started spouting leftist platitudes. Being combative and sarcastic by nature (since all Cubans are born with a sharp tongue), we all ended up angry and frustrated. Upon subsequent calm reflection, I...

Why I supported my autistic daughter’s social transition to a man (and I regret)

(source) FightingToGetHerBack lives in the United States with her husband and 17-year old daughter Zoe. Four years ago, Zoe made the surprise announcement that she was transgender. FightingToGetHerBack shares her personal story to illustrate how even smart, educated parents can be emotionally blackmailed into supporting their children’s transition.   For almost a year, I actively supported my...

Two Nations: Children From Intact And From Broken Families

(source) The image of "two nations," James Q. Wilson explained, the dividing line was no longer one of income or social class. Instead, it had become all about the family — specifically, whether one hailed from a broken or intact home. "It is not money," he observed, "but the family that is the foundation of public life....

“Teen Culture” is Destroying the World

(source) Preindustrial societies mostly exhibit a continuum from childhood to adulthood. There is generally no random cut off age where suddenly teens are given rights and expected to become adults. Children seamlessly and gradually integrate into adulthood, with puberty rites being the only major benchmark. These societies were “free-range parenting” before it was cool. Even toddlers have a...

School Shootings and the Sea of Loneliness

(source) Another mass shooting, more innocent lives lost and more communities shattered. America struggles to understand why the violence continues. What are we missing? America has failed miserably in how it treats those with mental illness and violent tendencies Several layers of law enforcement and social programs often also fail to do their jobs, such as...

Instead of Apocalyptic “Population Bomb” – Baby Shortage

(source) It’s a terribly stubborn demographic truism: Somewhere close to 100 percent of babies never born will never become customers of your business. This is true of the more than 55 million American babies who never made it past the womb since abortion was legalized in 1973. It’s also true of the untold millions who were never...

The Best Mom Can’t Make Up For A Dad

(source) A film producer told me a story recently.  It was about an experiment with high-school kids from disadvantaged families.  All of these students received full scholarships from renowned universities.  But none of these students went on to higher education.  Why?  Because they came from single-parent mother-only homes and their mothers pulled their kids heartstrings...

Rising The Fragile Generation

Bad policy and paranoid parenting are making kids too safe to succeed (source) One day last year, a citizen on a prairie path in the Chicago suburb of Elmhurst came upon a teen boy chopping wood. Not a body. Just some already-fallen branches. Nonetheless, the onlooker called the cops. Officers interrogated the boy, who said...

My wife wants a homosexual child

(source) They said that accepting gay "marriage" and homosexuality will not affect the marriage of normal people and the rest of society. Well, I doubt that this what I found in a parenting forum would happen without it. The question was asked in a forum by user28091: "We are planning to have our first child in about...

Manly Men

(source) The first time I ever had a reason to think that maybe the next generation of men coming along were a little light in the loafers, was when I hired a summer intern a dozen years ago. He was a college student hoping to become a lawyer or politician one day. He seemed like...

Fatherless Matriarchy Demeans Men and Polygamy Will Demean Women

(source) Why are modern men such layabouts? It’s simple. When the family declines, men decline. Men who are disassociated from family life soon become de-motivated, shiftless and underachieving. Fatherless child is rootless and drifting I’ve known men with severe self-esteem problems. Invariably their fathers told them they were stupid or no good. What the father says...

Liberals Now Want Public Schools To Ban Best Friends

Social scientists, who are certain the world would be a better place if everyone just does what they say – are telling us that schools and parents should ban children from having best friends. The argument, they say, is that when a kid has a “best friend,” it’s psychologically damaging when that best friend suddenly...

My father was a sperm donor. Here’s why I hate my conception

  My biological father sold his sperm when he was in medical school.  He was told what a wonderful, altruistic act he was doing, and praised for being so generous to a poor, infertile family.  He was also promised anonymity.  My parents bought that sperm and a doctor used it to inseminate my mother. I’m...

Are Red or Blue Families More Stable?

Conservatives are family-values hypocrites, Nick Kristof recently argued at the New York Times. They talk about marriage, family, and traditional values, but, in reality, they have difficulty living up to their professed values. In fact, it’s actually “liberals [who] practice the values that conservatives preach.” Certainly, Kristof is on to something when it comes to members of the political class,...